Helping Couples Find Their Loving Connection

Set Your Relationship Up For Success

Attend our Building a Lasting Connection® Couples Retreat and learn how to structure your communication so that you never have to worry about arguments again.

 

 

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Everyone Longs for a Magical Relationship

It’s just not right that you might have to deal with:

  • Communication that turns into misunderstandings

  • Repeated conflict that just never seems to quite

  • Differing opinions that just never seem to get heard

  • Loneliness that just keeps you feeling like this is hopeless

A Licensed Therapist Makes a Big Difference

Reading books that aren’t personalized
Talking to family who are completely biased
Talking to your pastor who isn’t trained to work with couples
Friends who can give bad advice

 

Let Me Help You Out

Hi there, I’m Jessica.

I have 10+ years of experience of studying the science behind what makes intimate relationships and marriages work.

Some might say that couples are my “jam”. Well…yes they are! I’ve worked with over 600 couples!

 

A Therapist Trained in Building a Lasting Connection® Can Help

This is what we will cover in the retreat so you and your partner can focus on creating a strong, sturdy foundation for your relationship:

  • In our initial session, we will delve into the concept of love and its intrinsic connection to secure attachment. We will explore the four distinct attachment styles and how each one exerts its influence on your relationship dynamics. An essential focus will be on understanding how your early life experiences shape your responses within your relationship. To gain insight into your own relational and emotional well-being, you and your partner will complete the Brief Accessibility, Responsiveness, and Engagement Scale. We will also examine how feelings of loneliness can impact not only your emotional health but also your physical well-being.

  • Our second session will revolve around the intricacies of couples' communication and active listening.

    You will be introduced to a specialized form of communication known as "Connecting Talk."

    Additionally, you'll become acquainted with the practical use of the Lasting Connections™ mat, a valuable tool to facilitate productive discussions.

    You and your partner will work together with this tool to enhance your proficiency in meaningful and successful communication.

  • In this session, we will embark on a journey to comprehend the inner workings of the human brain, exploring mirror neurons and the limbic system in the context of managing differences.

    You and your partner will examine and dissect negative interaction patterns that could potentially lead to conflicts.

    The reverse side of the Lasting Connections™ mat will be your guide in transitioning from conflict to connection.

    You'll also gain insights into providing emotional support and effective collaboration.

  • Our fourth session focuses on the profound impact of physical touch on relationship happiness.

    You and your partner will uncover the four essential elements of a fulfilling physical connection: romance, time, foreplay, and privacy.

    We will delve into the three distinct types of intimacy, with a particular emphasis on the type rooted in safe and secure emotional connection.

    Effective communication will be an underlying theme throughout, making this a valuable workshop for enhancing couples' interaction and intimacy.

  • In our concluding session, you and your partner will navigate the five key milestones in the journey toward a lasting and meaningful relationship: getting to know each other, fostering emotional connection, building trust, solidifying commitment, and nurturing physical intimacy.

    We will also explore the significance of daily rituals designed to foster connection and deepen your bond.

What You Can Expect From Premarital Counseling Workshops and Classes in Overland Park, KS

❦ Presentation:

  • Each session commences with an informative presentation that delves into key ideas and concepts pertinent to the topic at hand. These presentations encompass both lectures and engaging videos designed to facilitate your comprehension of the subject matter.

❦ Private Partner Conversation:

  • Following the presentation, you and your partner will have access to a private space where you can engage in open conversations about the topics discussed. Throughout these private partner conversations, our support team will periodically check in to guide the discussion and address any questions or concerns you may have.

❦ Help from Retreat Assistants:

  • During your retreat, assistants will be available to join you during your private conversation to ensure you and your partner are having a successful conversation. If for some reason the conversation is not going well, your assistant will be able to direct you and your partner to a conversation that will end in success.

❦ Group Reflection:

  • After your private partner conversation, we regroup as a whole to reflect on the experience of having a dedicated space for these discussions. Group reflection is a voluntary opportunity; you can choose to share your thoughts or simply listen, as there's no obligation to speak. The value of this group reflection time lies in realizing that you're not alone in your journey, as you'll discover other couples who can relate to your experiences and offer insights.

 

Enroll for Building a Lasting Connection® with Emovere Intensives and Retreats

Don't let your love story be just another statistic – fortify your bond, nurture your connection, and build a lasting love that defies the odds.

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 What Couples Ask About Building a Lasting Connection®

  • Well, traditional premarital programs often focus on honing communication skills and setting goals.

    However, our workshop goes beyond the surface, recognizing that a successful relationship encompasses much more.

  • Most Building Lasting Connection® retreats are held at our Overland Park location.

  • The cost of participation is $549 per couple, encompassing a comprehensive package featuring a presentation, a workbook, and access to facilitators to support you during private couple sessions.

    If you were to pay for 14 hours of therapy, your total cost would be over $2000!

  • Drawing from the principles of adult attachment theory, emotional responsiveness, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the "Building a Lasting Connection® Workshop" serves as a guiding beacon for couples.

    It gently navigates them through five transformative conversations aimed at fortifying their emotional bond, equipping couples at various stages of their relationship journey with the essential tools for effective intimate interactions.

    This workshop offers a unique opportunity to recognize and break free from detrimental communication patterns while nurturing healthier ways of expressing and connecting with one another.

  • Actually, NO! This retreat is for couples of all statuses. The concepts can easily be applied to all couples not matter how long you have been together.

Other Counseling Services at Emovere Intensives and Retreats

Our Online Building a Lasting Connection® Class is not the only service we offer in our Leavenworth and Overland Park counseling centers. Other mental health services Emovere Intensives and Retreats provides include one-day intensives, two-day intensives, three-day intensives, Hold Me Tight® private intensive, Building a Lasting Connection® private intensive and Hold Me Tight® group retreats. We also offer professional consultations and supervision opportunities. Contact us to get started or click on one of the links to learn more.